Anal pleasure

How to give anal pleasure?

For some women, the backside is strictly taboo territory; for others, it's a turn-on that can intensify their pleasure. Since your guy likes what you are doing so far, he may want you to explore this nerve-packed area further. Just make sure you take it slowly so you can suss out his boundaries. If going beyond his back door is off-limits, he'll let you know.

To begin, put a generous amount of water-based lube on one or two fingertips (make sure you replenish the lube often) and gently massage the area around the outer rim. Once she's riled up, test the waters by gently sliding just the tip of your middle finger inside. If she clenches her sphincter muscles, which encircle the anal opening, pull your finger out and continue rubbing the outer area to help reduce his tension. Then, try to insert your fingertip again.

If she likes how this feels and is up for trying more anal action, gradually move your finger in deeper, taking care not to scratch the delicate tissue inside. Hint: Make sure your fingernails are smooth. Give him some time to adjust to the way your finger feels. Whatever you do, don't force it. If you feel resistance, ease up. It might take several sessions for her to learn to relax enough for you to penetrate her more deeply.

Once she's comfortable with your finger inside of her: experiment by wiggling it back and forth, sliding it in and out, or moving it in a circular pattern. Pull this move when she's about to orgasm during intercourse, or while giving her manual or oral sex, and you just might send her into orbit.